# Roy Rapoport's Manager Readme

**Engineering Manager at Netflix**

# This is Weird

- Quite likely, yes
- We'll learn more about each other organically
- This was the best way I thought of to quickly and efficiently[0] mention a few things
- This is not a presentation, but an[infodeck](http://martinfowler.com/bliki/Infodeck.html)
- You probably should read, and be deeply familiarized with,[The Netflix Culture](http://www.slideshare.net/reed2001/culture-1798664)[1] first

[0] For some value of 'efficient'

[1] This link is now deprecated; [this is the updated Netflix Culture Doc](http://jobs.netflix.com/culture)

# DEPRECATION NOTE

I wrote this presentation as a quick way to introduce people to how I was leading at Netflix back in 2016. &nbsp;As such, it represents ways of leadership that are unique to the combination of Netflix’s culture and my leadership style, and is not an accurate description of how I might lead in another organization or how others might lead at Netflix. &nbsp;

After&nbsp;[a whole lot of happiness](https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/series-fortunate-events-3138-days-netflix-roy-rapoport/), I left Netflix in January/2018, at which point this presentation essentially became moot -- it’s not meant to represent anyone else’s style at Netflix, nor mine at my next job -- but some people expressed an interest in being able to refer to it for historical reasons. Hence here it is.

# Disclaimer

This should not be read to in any way apply to any other group or hiring manager at Netflix.

# I Don’t Believe in Personality Conflicts

- We may have substantive disagreements
- When it comes to adjusting to personalities, I strongly believe that the person in the more senior position is getting paid, partially, to adjust to the personality styles of the people reporting to them
- If you're a manager, this belief also extends to how I expect you'll work with your reports

# Directly-Responsible Individual (DRI)

- [See this for more context](http://originalfuzz.com/blogs/fuzz/83782148-the-directly-responsible-individual)
- I strongly believe this
- Means that a decision is either yours, or mine, but not both
- My scope of responsibility does not enclose your scope of responsibility
- I cannot override you
- I can try to persuade you
- I can definitely fire you if I don't believe your judgment is sound
- Disagreeing with me is not prima facie evidence of bad judgment

- Being DRI means you don't have to get consensus
- Being DRI means you don't have to get agreement
- Being DRI does not mean
  - You get to be thoughtless
  - You're exempt from having to explain why you made a certain decision
  - You're exempt from people telling you, ahead of time or afterward, that you made a mistake

# My Job

1. Attract and Retain World-Class Talent (that's you)

2. Set context

There's no #3

- If I do something that negatively impacts my ability to retain you, you would be doing me a huge favor if you let me know about it, as soon as possible
- If I do something that feels more like telling you how to do your job than setting context, you'd be doing me a huge favor if you let me know about it, as soon as possible

# On Feedback

- I love feedback
- Feedback is critical to your success here, and mine
- [Three dimensions are required for people to continue to give you feedback](https://medium.com/@royrapoport/why-wont-you-talk-to-me-f30a01a1994c):
  - Safety (unlikelihood of being punished for giving feedback; should be high)
  - Effort (The amount of work in order to give feedback, also known as "how much do you argue when people give you feedback?"; should be low)
  - Benefit(how likely is it that giving you feedback will materially impact your behavior? should be high)

- Let me know if I don't do well on any of these three dimensions
- I'll let you know if you don't do well on any of these three dimensions

- I've been called 'blunt'
- I care about kindness, but I'll optimize for effectiveness and within that optimized effectiveness try to be as kind as possible
- My job is to make sure you got the feedback

# Work Hours

- I'll endeavor not to talk to you about work things outside of work hours (~0800 to ~1800), assuming we're not at some sort of after-hours work function
- I may slip
- Unless I clearly indicate it's an emergency, if I reach out to you via IM or email outside of those hours, feel free to ignore me until next day
- Even within these hours, I don't expect you to be responsive 0800-1800. &nbsp;Be reasonable.
- I'm disinclined to call you or page you outside of business hours. &nbsp;That means that if I am, it's an emergency. This shouldn't happen very often (so far, less than once per year per developer)
- All of this is just for me contacting you, not being on-call or being paged by production systems.

# Want to Talk? Let’s Talk

- I do a bunch of things here.
- Very few of them are more important than spending time talking with you if you want to talk with me
- Feel entirely free to put time on my calendar to talk whenever you want
- (Actually, that applies to others here: Feel free to just send meeting requests rather than asking for permission from anyone here)

# Put Time on Your Calendar? Sure...&nbsp;

My calendar for a random February week in 2016:

- 8 open slots out of 40
- They’ll fill up too

Forget My Calendar:

- You may not find a slot on my calendar in any given day
- If you need to talk, let's talk
- Let me know via IM or phone and I'll evict something
- I do a bunch of things here.
- Very few of them are more important than spending time talking with you if you want to talk with me

# Are You Afraid of Being Fired Yet?

- Chances are very good that sometime in the first 3 months you will be wondering if you're about to be fired
- Find three engineers who've joined Netflix in the recent past and ask them if they experienced that fear
- Chances are, at least two have
- It's totally natural
- If you're within your first three months at Netflix and you're an engineer, you're incredibly unlikely to get fired anytime soon
- Exception: I've actually told you, explicitly and bluntly, that you're in danger of being fired

# Speaking of Terminations, My Track Record

As of February 14, 2016, I've been an engineering manager for a little more than three years. &nbsp;In that time, I've

- Hired nine people
- Had two people transferred under me
- Terminated three people

- I'm deeply interested in making sure anyone terminated by me for performance reasons is entirely unsurprised by this
- I have so far been pretty successful at this
- Bluntness helps
- You will not be surprised

# How Are You Doing? (Performance Spectrum)

In my head, every person reporting to me is in one of three particular levels of performance at any given point:

1. Green: You may have things you want to improve, there may be things I want you to improve, but if you changed nothing, given our current requirements I'd be delighted if you continued to work here for as long as you wanted
2. Orange: There's something you're doing that, long-term, makes your current trajectory unsustainable. &nbsp;This, if not changed, will not end well. You'll need to change something
3. Red: Your trajectory is unsustainable on a short-term and there's a specific, concrete, timebox we'll be putting around changing it, and you and I have had an explicit conversation around what's wrong and what the timeline for fixing it is.

I might realize in hindsight that you're not actually green but orange, but red is never a hindsight realization. &nbsp;It also means that the answer to the question "am I red right now?" is "if you have to ask, the answer is no".

# Going Orange? That’s It, Polish the Resume

- Not at all
- Going orange is utterly recoverable
- In the three years I've been an Engineering Manager I've gone orange 2-3 times. &nbsp;Each time I've recovered
- My ability to recover rapidly from orange has improved my management's trust in my ability to do my job and self-correct
- The same has happened to people under me
- If you go orange, you can pull out. &nbsp;And if you do, this builds trust
- Even red is not necessarily terminal. &nbsp;People have been in red, pulled out of it, and went on to have long successful careers here
- If you're here, it's because I still have faith in your ability to be successful here. &nbsp;IF I lose that faith, I will not be performance managing you, I will be terminating you (with the obvious generous severance package)

# What (I Think) I’m Good At

- Giving feedback, both positive and negative (AKA "I'm high on the candor scale")
- Making sure my message is heard (AKA "I'm high on the bluntness scale")
- Receiving feedback and acting on it

# Known Failure Modes

- I've been accused of an extreme interpretation of "context not control"
- At least until you demonstrate an ability to resist me telling you to do stupid things, I'm likely to be reticent to express opinions about what/how you should be doing (But I'll never demur in the face of a direct question or request for advice)
- I tend to take this whole "personality conflicts are my problem" thing a little far. &nbsp;In at least one case I've retained someone too long because I was unwilling to consider they were just wrong

# One on Ones (1o1s)

- Huge variety in frequency and length of 1o1s with direct reports (from weekly hour-longs to bi-weekly 15 minutes)
- We'll start with high frequency, high length
- You figure out when/if to taper back
- 1o1s are for you
- 1o1s are not for status updates unless you want to update status
- Either of us might be up to 5 minutes late (5 minute lateness is normal for us here). &nbsp;I'll endeavor to not be more late than that.

# On Candor

- This company may require me to not tell you about something before a certain date (e.g. stock option plan changes which managers knew a week before they were announced). &nbsp;This has happened here once in the three years I've been managing
- This company cannot require me to lie to you. &nbsp;That's never happened (I've never been asked to do so), and it could never happen (I would not abide by such a requirement).
- We bias toward transparency and candor. &nbsp;You can ask anything. Most of the time, I'll answer. &nbsp;Rarely, I won't. I'm committed to never lying to you.

